The Focus of Life: the six S's of life success
Is it better to focus on one life goal, pursuing it with full commitment? Or attempt to achieve success across many different spheres of life?
Life Tactics: the 15 tactics which help or hinder progress in life
Building on tactical strengths
Managing the risks of over-deployment
Overcoming any tactical shortcomings
Life Challenges: the six overarching challenges of life
Which goals and tactics will help make progress through life, and navigating through life’s opportunities and risks?
Life Dynamics Assessment
Two assessments for a comprehensive evaluation of life goals and tactics, and the opportunities and risks individuals face in meeting life’s challenges.

Engaging with something bigger than ourselves

Much of the time the focus on life is ourselves, protecting what we have, looking to achieve more and shifting our priorities to advance what is best for us personally. But from time to time, we also experience those moments of wonder, awe and mystery. Faced with something of outstanding beauty, excellence or goodness, we identify something outside of ourselves and our personal concerns to experience a sense of the universal and ideal. This insight – there is something bigger - moves us towards the challenge of finding a deeper meaning in the midst of what can often seem arbitrary, random and pointless.

This challenge is not simply the “contemplation of the infinite”. It is the ongoing task to find a spiritual purpose and live an authentic life based on enduring values and ethical principles. It is not the theoretical acknowledgement of the “cosmos”; it is the need to connect with deeper values personally and directly.

No challenge in life is easy. But this task represents perhaps the most difficult. On the one hand, the challenge can be met through a commitment to a belief system, the acceptance of an established orthodoxy and the observance of specific religious practices. Fulfilling for many, for others this represents a step towards dogma that can become blind faith and the intolerance of others’ beliefs. For others “the divine” is dismissed quickly through an appeal to the power of reason and scientific progress.

Meeting and overcoming this life challenge:

Experiencing a Sense of Wonder

 

The spiritual dimension

 

Developing moral character and integrity

History, myths and legends

The beauty of the world, science and the universe

Reconciling faith and dogma

Prayer and meditation

Choosing a religion

Developing moral character and intergity

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Experiencing a Sense of Wonder
Are you ever surprised? Are you ever struck by the sheer marvel and mystery of this planet in which we find ourselves? Of our past, the extraordinary story of our evolutionary process and how we came to be who we are? Our present and the richness and diversity of our civilisation? And our future and how our ingenuity might create a world we cannot now envision?

“I believe in God, only I spell it Nature.”

Frank Lloyd Wright

History, Myths and Legends
The study of history is as old as history itself. We look to the past for answers about the present and the future. And the study of our history takes us out of our immediate day to day concerns to connect us to the broader sweep of mankind.

“A myth is a religion in which no one any longer believes.”

James Feibleman

www.britannia.com: a vast body of national mythology and local legend

www.thinkquest.org: superb site with masses of stuff, including myths in various cultures and from different parts of the world.

The Beauty of the World, Science and the Universe
“My suspicion is that the universe is not only queerer than we suppose, but queerer than we can suppose.” There may come a time when we know everything. In the meantime, there is much to astonish us, not least the fact that we can make any sense at all out of how the universe works. And the more we discover, the more astonishing things become.

“The more we learn, the more we are – or ought to be dumfounded. Our proper business is to learn more and more and separate our mere ignorance from genuine mystery.”

Lewis Thomas

“Isn't it enough to see that a garden is beautiful without having to believe that there are fairies at the bottom of it too?”

Douglas Adams

www.scirus.com: the most comprehensive science-specific search engine on the Internet

www.nhm.ac.uk: the site of the Natural History museum

www.francisfrith.com: archive containing over 330,000 photographs of some 7,000 towns and villages throughout Britain with facility to purchase prints

www.scicentral.com: the gateway to the best scientific research news sources

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The Spiritual Dimension
Are we living in a “material world”, a world governed by the laws of physics, full stop? Is that it? Or is there something else; a realm of mystery and miracle and ultimate “truth” which is unknowable to science?

“Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power.  We have guided missiles and misguided men.”

Martin Luther King, Jr

Reconciling Faith and Dogma
“Faith is the assurance of what we hope for; it is our conviction about things we cannot see.” Faith and the religious impulse are made up three components, a cosmology (a story of the universe and our place within it); spirituality (our personal response to the mystery of the world); and a liturgy (the practices and rituals which express our sense of awe). The challenge: selecting a faith with the right mix of the three that doesn’t become dogma.

“Faith and doubt both are needed - not as antagonists, but working side by side to take us around the unknown curve.”

Lillian Smith

“Every dogma has its day, but ideals are eternal.”

Israel Zangwill

www.valuesofthewise.com: bridging the gap between the spiritual and the worldly by bringing to life the timeless wisdom of the great thinkers

www.buzzle.com: articles and links around spirituality

Prayer and Meditation
There are different kinds of prayer (request, praise, thanks, forgiveness) and many forms of meditation. Fundamental to both is the willingness to step out of personal and immediate concerns to connect to something bigger than us.

“Do you wish to find out the really sublime? Repeat the Lord's Prayer.”

Napoleon Bonaparte

“To pray is to pay attention to something or someone other than oneself. Whenever a man so concentrates his attention - on a landscape, a poem, a geometrical problem, an idol, or the True God - that he completely forgets his own ego and desires, he is praying.”

W H Auden

www.worldprayers.org: a listing of prayers by category and tradition

meditation-techniques.org: set of links and articles covering meditation

www.worldprayers.org: prayers written by the spiritual visionaries from all traditions

Choosing a Religion
Are some religious belief systems “better” than others? What criteria do you use to find that faith which satisfies your spiritual needs?

“Suppose we've chosen the wrong god. Every time we go to church we're just making him madder and madder.”

Homer Simpson

“If you have abandoned one faith, do not abandon all faith. There is always an alternative to the faith we lose. Or is it the same faith under another mask?”

Graham Greene

“A religion without the element of mystery would not be a religion at all.”

Edwin Lewis

www.meta-religion.com: every religion, sect and group you could ever imagine

www.buzzle.com: directories that list links to a broad range of resources on several religions, cults, sects, and other religious movements and organizations

www.beliefnet.com: teachers, guides and gurus

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Developing Moral Character and Integrity
Are there any moral standards, norms for right and wrong that apply anywhere and everywhere? Or are good and bad relative, only meaningful when judged within a specific time and situation? Is there any “ought”?

“The measure of a man's real character is what he would do if he knew he never would be found out.”

Thomas Babington Macaulay

“It is always easier to fight for one's principles than to live up to them.”

Alfred Adler

“If... you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.”

Catherine Aird

www.spiritualityhealth.com: people, practices, and the ideas of the current spiritual renaissance

www.thevirtues.org: a series of paintings embodying the essence of virtues with the world’s great spiritual and philosophical teachings.

www.josephsoninstitute.org: links to ethics centres, academic, business and work-place

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